Romantic is not where and when. It is about attitude.

I remember I read a book many years ago. There is a restaurant with 3 different couples. One pair of couple have their meal where the man was looking around seeing any attractive lady inside the restaurant and the lady was talking thru her mobile phone on business. The second pair of couple were a man & a woman having their meal without looking at each other and have their entire meal in silent. And, the last pair of couple gaze romantically into each other eyes with tenderness, love & passion while having their food.

The book explain that romantic is a kind of attitude. An attitude regardless of time and surrounding. These three pair of couples were having same environment and same type of food, however, the love within were so much of different.

The fisrt pair of couple were totally neglected the existence of each other. They have their owned life & totally doesn't border what their spouse do. May be it was some reason that still keep them being together. The second pair may be slightly better, being together may just be another form of habit, they have long lost interest for each other, but, due to habit, they are being together. It will be a stage where the second set of couple will either become like the first pair or go seperate if their relationship continue without improvement. The third pair of couple were in love, they couldn't even notice their surrounding except their partner.

As a result, romantic is not where and when. It is about attitude. An attitude on how u gaze your partner in tenderness and passion in any where at any time. If someone has lost their love in you, you will notice it. If you don't, you are either choosing not to notice it or you are the one that losing of love to your partner. Regardless of any beautiful explaination, a fact is a fact. You will notice it in which stage of your relationship if you carefully observe it. Nothing to hide or no point to find an alibi.

Your daily attitude will show.