Way of Life

I cannot remember the exact words and it's structure, a friend of mine sent me an sms. Basically it means if someone overcross u & prepare to seek for forgiveness, we should not give that person hard time. What if you are not sure the person truly regreted & trying to seek for your forgiveness? Well, It's time to learn from the buddhism way of life.. "learn to open and let go the hatred of ur palm, so that you can hold the true happiness.." I pray hard to get forgiveness and hope that my God open up not only my palm, but my heart too..